Inpired and spurred by Alice, I decided to do a little update about my life here in Taiwan.
As you all know, i was planning to go to SF for my MBA degree. However, this plan is now cancelled due to diefferent reasons…well, one because of my eyes, second because of my grandma, third because of some personal things which i dont think i should address here (but don’t come to ask me coz i dont think i want to talk about it)
Anyway, I am not going to SF anymore at this current moment and sorry for the pals who were expecting to see me.
My cousin is getting married this coming Monday, their engagement party and wedding banquet are on the same day which are kinda driving the whole family crazy. I will be the bridesmaid so I guess i would be extra busy. Gotta to pick up gowns, try on dresses, find photographers, make up artists, rehearsal….and so on. Wedding really is such a difficult things. Lately I’ve been thinking if i really want to get married. I don’t think I’m really willing to sacrifice for another man. (just personal opinion and my characteristic.) I just don’t understand why girls must MARRY into a family and live with them? why not boys marry into the girl’s family? No offense here, but I just dont see why.
So far I have no plan for my life, I am still trying to figure out things. U guys are lucky to know what you want to do in life …(or maybe you don’t ?!)
I have been doing lots of things that will do me good now such as yoga, swimming, dancing and 氣功. Not like I have felt anything so different now but i believe in the long run they will do me good. At least I exercise I think. (Ning has been running too.)
thinking of getting a new phone coz my old phone is starting to act weird. I can’t find a perfect phone for myself. (No iphone coz i don’t want to use iphone) any other suggestions?
I miss everyone too and i want to know about what everyone else’s doing. Can you guys update?
love, J.
i think there are some cases where the guy marries into the girl’s family.
Hey Jolin,
. Peace.
Yes, there are a lot of cases that guys do live in the girls’ house like Mark said. You know, marriage is between two persons so do what works, ther are no rules. As for getting married, just want until a guy who will change your mind about marriage. Until then, enjoy life and yourself